I got an email from someone I used to go out with asking me to update my phone numbers etc. How bizarre. I can only assume that I remain in Kat's contact list through error - she sure didn't reply to anything I sent her in the last year. After I'd sorted her head out, analysed her (and their number is legion) problems, discussed her difficulties with her mother, calmed her down and councelled her into getting a job, an apartment and a life she never wrote back again. And all of that after she'd dumped me!!

I did of course update my details, and that makes me a loser.